You don't provide enough information for an intelligent answer, but after waiting 12 years, it hardly seems worth agreeing to anything you don't agree to just to "hurry the matter along." If you are not in full agreement, go to "trial" - which is likely to be a very short hearing. And if you are not comfortable figuring it out, consider hiring a lawyer to complete the case for you, or at least consult with qualified counsel, showing all the paperwork, before deciding what to do.
Answered on Aug 07th, 2014 at 5:05 PM