In order to be awarded day care costs, the parent requesting the payment must work (or sometimes go to school) during those hours. She also needs to provide proof of payment. If either of those are missing, she is not entitled to be paid. The father should not pay, unless he has proof of both of these. Otherwise, let her go to court. If the father (not you) is available during the hours at issue, to care for the child, he can tell the court that and the court may allow him to care for the child. If the mother went out of State and left the child with someone, for more time than the length of a business trip, then there is no entitlement for daycare and the father may have a basis to ask for a modification of the parenting plan if this went on (and is still going on) for an extended period of time.
Answered on Jan 07th, 2016 at 3:38 AM