what rights do I have ?

Thank you for your question.  It sounds like you are in a tough position and need some information with regard to your situation.  Generally speaking, income earned during a marriage does not belong solely to one party or to the other, but is rather considered to be marital in nature.  Likewise with any assets and/or accumulated during a marriage, including retirement accounts, or credit card debt incurred to provide for the family.  In addition, someone in your position may also be entitled to alimony and child support. I strongly suggest that you schedule a consultation with an experienced family law attorney who can discuss your specific circumstances with you and help you strategize to move forward.