If you do not have any Custody Orders from the court yet, you need to file your case and get her served. If you do it soon, the children's residence will likely still be where you are and she will be required to come to your state and county for the court orders instead of you having to go where she will have established a new residency. Time is running, you want to get this going before she has more reason to keep them where they are (they have become accustomed to it, they are enrolled in school there, etc).
Answered on Jun 15th, 2015 at 3:35 PM