First of all, since you and your son's mother were never married, unless you filed a Petition for Legitimation in the Superior Court, you have no legal rights to your son. In fact, if his mother did not want you to speak to or see your son, she would have the legal authority to exercise those rights. Accordingly, the first thing you would have to do is legitimize your son in the Superior Court. Once legitimation has been granted, then you may pursue visitation and/or custody. The court will make a determination as to "what is in the best interest of the minor child" in reaching a decision as to custody. I strongly suggest that you do not attempt to pursue this without the assistance of an attorney.
Answered on May 30th, 2013 at 10:51 AM