There are two separate issues here. The first is the domestic violence charge. It's unclear from your question whether you have been charged with domestic violence, or if she is leveraging the allegation to get a divorce. If she has filed a police report and pressed charges, then you need to argue exactly what you have with an attorney present.
If she is using this as leverage in a divorce proceeding, then it doesn't particularly matter. Ohio is a no-fault divorce state. All that needs to be alleged and proven is that you are "incompatible" which is an extremely low burden.
Answered on Jun 23rd, 2020 at 10:06 AM