If your question is do the parties have to pay a penalty to share the 401K, the answer is maybe. If one party wants to withdraw the money as cash, then that party will have to pay the taxes/penalties. If the party does not want cash, the money can be rolled over into an Individual Retirement Account or other qualified plan as a 1031 transfer without incurring the penalty or paying taxes.
Answered on Feb 12th, 2013 at 2:37 PM