Where and how can I get a Qualified Parenting Coordinator / Guardian ad litem ?

I am sorry you're experiencing this much difficulty with the father of your sons.  If he does not want to go to counseling, you have one of two choices: Continue with this impasse over parenting or seek court relief. You cannot have a guardian ad litem appointed unless there is an open court matter. You can both agree to see a parenting coordinator ("PC") to help with the timesharing issues and the other issues as well, but again, only if both agree to go to the coordinator or the court orders it.  Since the lack of compliance with the timesharing is a way to get a court's attention, you may try filing a Motion for Contempt relating to the timesharing and then ask the judge to refer you both to a parenting coordinator. I have been a PC for over three or four years and court-appointments are the way to go.  Again, both of you can agree to go to a PC if you wish. I hope he will ‘see reason' for the best interest of the boys and go to the parenting coordinator.  If not, the court can assist you. - David B. Mitchell, Esq., Coral Gables, Florida