My advice is to listen to your attorney, or get a new one. But the new attorney may tell you the same thing. This divorce has been going on for five years and now you want to get a new lawyer? It can be done, but the new lawyer is going to have to spend many hours catching up on what has been going on these five years, and then he/she is more likely to miss some of the details. You should understand, on this site, we don't know what state you are in, and I only practice in NY, so I don't know what equitable distribution rules apply in your state. Generally speaking, you should be entitle to half of the value of the marital assetts. So, if your husband owns half of the partnership and acquired that ownership interest during the course of the marriage, then you should be entitled to half of the value of his half of the partnership. It's the partnership that is the asset, not the land etc that it owns. Similarly, you (should be) entitled to half of the value of the land etc that you and your husband own together. Perhaps not the assets themselves, but the value of the assets. As for education costs, if you are talking about future expenses, that's on you. If you are talking about student loans already incurred, then it's possible he might have to contribute, but again your lawyer is in a much better position to answer that than I. Regarding spousal support, usually the key factor there is "disparity of income" so if he is making a significant amount more than you, that's when it comes in to play. Otherwise, if you are each capable of supporting yourselves, then it's a wash.
Answered on Jul 16th, 2015 at 9:16 PM