If your daughter has been residing in NJ for six months or more, you should file to dismiss the NY case and file your own case in NJ immediately. The UCCJEA prohibits shopping around for the best state court - the courts can only take a case if the child has been living there for six months or more. If she's with you most of the time and her residence is NJ, you need to make that clear, otherwise you will end up stuck in New York. This is a complicated issue and I suggest you get an attorney to help you in your NY case and to start an immediate case in NJ. Good luck!
Answered on Mar 21st, 2014 at 9:31 AM