Short version is that if the two of you are married and have a child, your rights are identical. See the statutes, discussion, and resources posted at http://willicklawgroup.com/child-custody-and-visitation/.
If we are not talking about relocation, but a family visit, you have the same rights she does to do so, absent any other complicating factors (dangers, medical issues, whatever). That said, do not allow any conflict to escalate to child snatching, and re-snatching, or worse, physical violence. If you cannot arrange some understanding, perhaps it is time to seek a court order.
Answered on Sep 11th, 2014 at 11:37 AM