You are paying child support because the law requires you to support your children. If you are not seeing them and want to, then you should file a petition for visitation in the family court. If the children's mother is purposefully keeping them from you against a court order, eventually you could move to suspend your child support. But it is not clear from the facts you provide if you are having your rights interfered with.
Answered on Feb 27th, 2013 at 3:38 PM