Sounds like a horrible situation. Perhaps you and your ex can agree to go back to court and get a lower or new award and try to get the new award on the record properly with both agencies? Or to go back to court and ask that the support collection unit be taken out of the case (you want to pay her directly so you can make sure she gets the money) -- the court will have to order that you are doing direct payment and any case with support collections is closed by the parties agreement - this way you can tell them to butt out and pay her directly.
Short of that, you are dealing with government agencies and there isn't a lot that can be done.
Answered on Oct 01st, 2013 at 4:07 PM