You seem to have a couple of diffierent court processes confused. As to the TPO, that is a civil process, with you on one side and your ex on the other; and you indicate that you got the order you requested.
The criminal prosecution, on the other hand, is "the State" on one side, and your ex on the other. You are the victim, and a witness, but not a party. To answer your question, it was the prosecutor's job to give you notice and secure your attendance and testimony -- in the absence of that testimony, presumably the State could not obtain a conviction. If you have questions about what happened and why, call the D.A. or other prosecutor and ask.
Answered on Jun 02nd, 2017 at 9:13 AM