If you have an attorney, the judge will not help you. Your attorney may have realized that the hearing was not going to be about evidence, just an arraignment as to the contempt of court charge. In that event, it is unlikely that the judge would take evidence at that hearing, but would only take your plea. And as for not sending your son, you should have gone to court to have the custody order modified and let the court decide it was not safe for your son to visit. It is not your call to violate a court order.
Answered on Feb 21st, 2013 at 3:51 PM