will i get child support help from the state if the father of my kids is overseas ?

The state won't be able to provide you financial support aside from certain benefits offered by the government in raising kids. The state can certainly enforce child support even with overseas parents. You will really need to work with an attorney to get the help you need since he/she you chose to work with will be able to go over your options.   Above answer and comments to questions are for general purposes only and does not constitute legal advice or establishes an attorney-client relationship without a signed retainer. Please reach out to an attorney you are comfortable with working and discussing your case in more details.