If you decide outside of court, the court will not be able to 100% enforce the agreement as it may not be recognized by the court. You will and should settle the case in court so that it becomes binding until its modified in court. This might cost you a $1,000 - $3,000 but look at the benefits it will have. It will be a court binding agreement, enforceable in all 50 states, even if you or he decides to move. You are or were agreed to get $400/month, depending on the parent income and stuff you might be able to get more or less, but you will not know until you put him on child support through the legal system. So when he defaults it, not pay, it can build up, and he will eventually have to pay up or be arrested for contempt of court and you will get the money back he does not pay that way. So investing a small amount in a lawyer you can work with to me I feel can be beneficial for you. If you have further questions, don't hesitate to contact my office. Thanks.
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Answered on Jan 22nd, 2018 at 9:13 PM