First things first: retain a killed matrimonial lawyer to advise and represent you. It's almost always worth it. You can't get the expenses you want covered unless you ask for it. So ask estranged spouse, and if he will not consent, ask the court. The outcome is uncertain, but your own lawyer can review all the details and facts with you at length, and can advise you better about the likely outcome.
Answered on Jul 28th, 2015 at 1:29 PM