Since you are about to go through a divorce, you need to handle the situation with your parents' accounts differently. Since they put you on the account, it is technically an asset of yours, which needs to be included in the marital pot for division through the divorce. You will need to show that you do not use the account for your personal use and have not put money into the account. Prior to filing for divorce, you need to get your names of these accounts and have your parents execute Powers of Attorney giving you the power to do their banking. This will limit the exposure of your parent's accounts during the divorce, but will not completely protect the assets, as your Wife's attorney may ask questions through discovery that will require you to disclose the accounts. Your parents need to be ready to testify as to ownership of the accounts and why you were on them. A Power of Attorney will allow you to do anything you need to do for your parents banking wise if they are unable, and a transfer on death beneficiary on the accounts will avoid probate (but not inheritance taxes if they apply). Most of your situation will depend on how your Wife acts throughout the divorce process. If it is an amicable divorce and she is aware that you are just on the accounts to help out your parents, she can agree to leave them alone. The other side of that is dragging every one into court to answer as to these accounts.
Answered on Jan 04th, 2012 at 1:04 PM