Am married to a resident overstayed my visa what are my opinion

You really only have two options. The first option is to wait until your spouse naturalizes and then start the adjustment of status process. The second option would be to pursue an immigrant visa through consular processing. This will require you to obtain a waiver for unlawful presence. You may qualify for the provisional waiver, which would allow you to have the waiver approved before leaving the U.S. You can read more at http://myattorneyusa.com/provisional-stateside-unlawful-presence-waiver.