How can somebody qualify for Refugee exactly what situation do they have to be in

There is no one situation that makes a person eligible for refugee or asylee status. The person must establish he/she has a well-founded fear of persecution in his/her native country on account of race, religion, ethnicity, political opinion, or membership in a particular social group. You can read more about refugee and asylum protection at http://myattorneyusa.com/asylum-and-refugee-protection.