In order to qualify for a fiance visa you have to have met in person within the last two years of applying for the visa. The processing times are 6-9 months. Since there is an age difference, there will be questions regarding the genuisness of the relationship. I advise you to hire an immigration attorney that you trust to handle the process for you; otherwise it could very complicated.
Good luck.
Answered on Dec 29th, 2011 at 3:19 PM