My husband has been here for one year and three months. After four months here I caught him on a dating site seeking a relationship. I have also found pictures in his phone of a woman with a baby sent to him back in his country. I have found a Mexican lady in his phone as well. When I asked him about these he would say the woman with the baby is his friends wife. However, its several pictures. He also deliberately pick fights with me I think to try to ruin the relationship. He wants to be looked at as a good guy by his friends and family. He has opened his own bank account he use to deposit money into our joint account but now he don't. I feel like he is planning things behind my back. If I feel like he used me to get here and want a divorce what can I do?
If your husband is a conditional resident, you can decide whether to assist him in removing the conditional basis of residence status by signing the I-751 form and cooperating throughout the adjudication process. If he is already a permanent resident (marriage was at least two years old prior to him coming to the US), you have less hold over his actions. At present, you have suspicions, but there is likely nothing that you can do with them vis-a-vis U.S.C.I.S. Even in the event that he eventually initiates divorce proceedings, you would probably not interest the agency into going after his green card since it appears that he has been living with you for the duration of time that he has been in the US. Due to the limitations of the Lawyers.com Forums, Alan Lee, Esq.'s (the "Firm") participation in responding to questions posted herein does not constitute legal advice, nor legal representation of the person or entity posting a question. No Attorney/Client relationship is or shall be construed to be created hereby. The information provided herein by the Firm is general, and requires that the poster obtain specific legal advice from an attorney. The poster shall not rely upon the information provided herein as legal advice nor as the basis for making any decisions of legal consequence.
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