If a pending asylee apply for advance parole and after approval does not visit internationally, will it affect negatively?

I am a pending asylee of form I-589. I have my EAD and social, my mother is so sick and she is under treatment and the doctors are deciding to send her abroad for better treatment. I want to see her and want to be beside her. I am not sure which country they are going to send her either UAE or India. Do I need to give specific country name to apply for advance parole? I am applying it for future emergency situation. At the urgent moment, I don’t want to go through with all the paper work. What should I do and what kind of supporting document will help me to get approved my advance parole? I also need to show my advance parole to the other country (where my mother is going for her treatment) to get my tourist visa approved. If I do not visit internationally, after getting approval because of changing my mother’s health condition will it affect my case negatively?