my job was terminated while my opt stem extension application is still pending

If your job was terminated while your OPT STEM extension application is still pending, perhaps the best thing to do would be to quickly obtain employment in your field with another employer who is under E-Verify. You should also notify your DSO of your changed circumstances when you obtain your new employment. Due to the limitations of the Lawyers.com Forums, Alan Lee, Esq.'s (the "Firm") participation in responding to questions posted herein does not constitute legal advice, nor legal representation of the person or entity posting a question. No Attorney/Client relationship is or shall be construed to be created hereby. The information provided herein by the Firm is general, and requires that the poster obtain specific legal advice from an attorney. The poster shall not rely upon the information provided herein as legal advice nor as the basis for making any decisions of legal consequence.