my wife leave the country 3 years ago with my daughter what can I do to bring my daughter back and get the divorce

Your question is not a matter of immigration law but rather family law. You should speak to an experienced family law attorney about obtaining custody of your child and enforcing the order overseas.  You have no say in whether your spouse keeps her green card, but if she has stayed outside the United States for more than a year she is presumed to have abandoned her residence.