What can i do to avoid deportation

I have filed for asylum and it was denied , i was taken to removal proceedings and eventually ordered deported... My country would not accept deportees, ICE had to release me on order of supervision... Within that time i married my long time girlfriend , filed for the I-130 and filed for "motion to reopen " . The I-130 is approved but the motion to reopen is still pending...What else can i file to safe for from deportation until the motion to reopen is finalized...? I have been here for 14 years , no criminal record, worked and paid taxes... 10 for the years was after the deportation was ordered... When i went to the final Hearing in Sept 2006.. never had a lawyer , asked the judge for an extension but he refused , never even knew between Sept and December i could have appealed it... the judge only told me " you need to be out here buy December"