My recommendation would be to sit with an attorney who can provide the guidance that you will need to make an informed decision. Sounds to me like a fiance visa would be the best alternative available to you based in what you have provided in your inquiry. In a situation such as this, I think that you at best served by talking to someone who has handled applications like this in the past and who can provide you a nuts and bolts presentation on how it is done and the rough estimate of timelines require to get your applications filed, approved and to obtain visa issuance. This is not necessarily the most complicated of cases, but the assistance and guidance of a qualified attorney who can move things along and who can deal with any issues which may arise is probably your best bet. Sit with someone, ask questions and get the answers that you and your spouse need to make an informed decision. Good Luck.
Answered on Sep 14th, 2012 at 6:10 PM