Your inquiry suggests you may be qualify to file a Form I-360 petition as spouse of an abusive US citizen. If you present credible documents to substantiate your allegation, CIS may grant you a green card which you file on your own and without your husband's knowledge or assistance. Contrary to what you may think battered spouse petitions, just like claims of insanity in criminal cases are not easy to prove, since not every instance of disagreement between spouses rises to the level of abuse. In fact, CIS is very suspicious of abuse allegations and you must expect CIS will demand a lot of evidence to support your claims of abuse You should speak to an experienced immigration attorney to access the strength of your case before you do anything.
Answered on Feb 24th, 2013 at 1:25 PM