No, texting a co-worker is not illegal, but your employer may be able to stop you from doing it, especially if you work for a private company and not government. Mostly the issue would be if the co-worker didn't want you to text him or her, they would complain and you would be asked to stop because it's bothering them. I think you should do as your employer asks so that they don't fire you, and also treat the co-worker in a little more distant but still friendly way (and only when work causes you to interact or come close to each other) so that you are not seen as retaliating against them for not wanting to communicate with you outside of work. The employer of course will be concerned that there is a sexual harassment type of issue going on and they have an obligation to try to make that stop, even if it is outside of work.
Answered on Oct 24th, 2013 at 7:10 PM