QUESTION
Is it okay for my boss to send me that sarcastic text message?
Asked on Sep 12th, 2013 on Labor and Employment - New York
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I injured my back and went to a doctor who said I need to be out for a few days, and to let him know if I need more. I asked for one more day and he agreed. I texted my boss that I will be back on Friday, I'm still hurting and need one more day. Later this morning, I got a sarcastic text from my boss that if I'm okay to go out Saturday night, I should be okay to come in today. I did make a post to a friend about going to see a friend's band Saturday night. I don't work weekends. And that I would pick him up but not stay late. I resented the mean text from my boss because 1. That's my day off 2. I have doctor's notes to cover me being out, and 3. someone went right to her to show her my posting. I am not friends on facebook with my boss just a few co-workers I thought I can trust. I am angry and want to confront my boss. When I asked what she was talking about she backed down a bit but I'm still very angry about the nasty text.
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In GA, mere rude behavior is not illegal. Yes, that sounds legal to me. Rude, but legal Do not be guided by your emotions.
Answered on Sep 13th, 2013 at 12:46 PM
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Yes, it is legal for your boss to send you that message. I can understand his frustration. However, you might want to explain to him that you are not malingering and that sitting for a couple of hours at the bar will be no different than if you were sitting at home.
Answered on Sep 13th, 2013 at 11:10 AM
I think you boss has a point. You cannot claim disability and go out to see a band. The presumption is that you hurt so badly that you must stay home. So, hopefully you have enough sick days to get paid for a missing day, and be aware of Facebook exposure.
Answered on Sep 13th, 2013 at 11:06 AM