You desperately need a family law attorney. Dissolution and custody court is run under different rules than the regular courts.
Get all the papers you can together for the attorney.
One important question will be whether the restraining and gag order came from a MEDIATOR or an ARBITRATOR. They are very different and have very different powers and consequences. That is the first question your attorney will need to resolve for you.
I recommend Michael Finein in Alameda.
Dana Sack
Answered on Jul 02nd, 2014 at 3:10 PM