No, you cannot drop the charges for a domestic abuse case. Once the charges have been filed, usually based on a police report, it is up to the City or State to determine whether charges will be filed, and if so, what they will be. You may be called to testify, should the matter go to trial. You can be required to testify, even against you will (*See*, Hostile Witness). The City or State may speak with you to gain your input as to the situation and may take your comments into account when determining what will be their recommendation as to a plea.
Answered on Aug 15th, 2012 at 3:22 PM