I don't believe you have a lawsuit worth pursuing. Even if you did have a right to sue your non-biological father, lawsuits are about money for damages that your "ghost daddy" could never pay you. The lawsuit process of depositions and hearings would further tie you to him and force interaction he does not want. It would not be good for you either. He sounds like a deadbeat loser in many many ways. It is not your fault that he is so petty. For the sake of reducing his child support payments a tiny amount, he betrayed your trust as well as needlessly upset your siblings. Very small minded man. Unfortunately, the legal system can't heal this kind of injustice. However, what goes around comes around. He will get bowel cancer sooner rather than later now, for sure. Stay bonded with your mother. Remind your siblings that your history together and mother's blood make you family forever no matter what the jerk says about you or her. You all can overcome this POS. In a surprising twist, shouldn't you be happy his genes, in fact, aren't part of you? As bad as he is, he's not part of you. On the issue of finding your biological father, don't obsess. If and when the time is right, it will happen. If not, the mystery doesn't have to change things. Good Luck with your dreams.
Answered on May 29th, 2015 at 9:18 AM