A California court would find that; If your husband was in the military and his residence before leaving was New York and he intended to return there and has in fact returned there; then New York has jurisdiction, as it is considered his domicile. But, it would be a divorce without the issue of child custody being decided. The state where the children last resided for six month prior to the start of the proceeding would have jurisdiction regarding child custody. If you meet the residency requirements of California (3 months in the county and six months in the state) you may serve and file your divorce in California. California will have jurisdiction if you serve him, before he serves you. While you are waiting you can file for legal separation, but again, the issue of child custody belongs to the state where the children last resided for six consecutive months.
Answered on May 14th, 2014 at 8:09 PM