I need to file a Vehicle License & Title Courtesy Stop, or a TRO Temporary Restraining Order in the County of San Bernardino. Please advise how much

To get your car back, you're going to have to sue the person that has it, and you'll have to get a TRO against the DMV to not transfer the vehicle.  This is litigation that is very difficult to determine how long it will take or how much it will cost.  It all depends on how well your case goes.  Please call or email an attorney for a ful consultation.