I need to know if I sold a vehicle to a family member they paid it late repeatedly had no insurance wrecked the car and had no license what can be don

If she files suit, you would have a good defense based on the facts you've stated. Her payments probably correspond with her use of the vehicle so she would have a hard time proving that she has a valid claim against you. On the other hand, you probably have valid claims against her for the wreck and interest on the late payments, depending on the agreement you had with her.