Appellate Practice Attorney serving New York, NY
What you are describing is not an invasion of YOUR privacy, but your exgirlfriend's. Theoretically, once you shared whatever you shared with your ex, she could have shared them with her mom, or friends, or whoever and (with rare exceptions) you, having voluntarily shared whatever with her, would have no legitimate expectation of privacy. Moreover, there are many things which I would consider an invasion of privacy, but which do not give rise to a cause of action.
Having said that, what your ex's mom is doing is extortion, which is a crime. Contact the police.
Answered on Oct 16th, 2014 at 9:52 AM