What are my legal options to prevent a woman from stalking and harassing me through third-parties and to recover damages for emotional distress?

What are my legal options to prevent a woman from stalking and harassing me through third-parties? For over two years, she has consistently kept track of my whereabouts by calling individuals I have lived with, even though I have moved three times. She has also caused other people to make harassing phone calls to me. She has done physical damage to my car window -- also through a third-party. I do not want to get a restraining order however because that would require I give her my current address. This has been going on so long that it has caused me significant emotional distress and has impaired my ability to function at work -- so I would also like to know what my options are as far as a civil case against her for damages.