My husband has an attorney and I do not. We were married 25 yrs and I did not work the last 12 of those years. I have no income and he took all the money. Anyway it’s time for an agreement or trial. So I have to sign this document. My soon to be ex did not disclose all his assets and bank accounts, even though I listed them on the disclosure documents. Everyone just acts as if I don't matter. This document is written all in my husband’s favor. Is there anywhere I can look up how this can be worded in a way that is more neutral? Also can they stipulate that the cost basis cannot be adjusted on an investment account I am getting some of?
If you have no income and your husband makes a decent income, you may be entitled to temporary attorney fees for an attorney to help you get a fair deal. You may also consider unbundled or limited representation where an attorney will come in and help with just the documents. You could also ask the judge to require you and your husband to attend mediation with an attorney mediator to help make the document more fair.
If you are not satisfied with the proposed agreement then do not sign it. You can ask for better terms and you can consult with, or hire legal counsel to represent you in the action.
Without seeing the document, I can't advise. I would suggest that you look for a legal services clinic in your area that might be of help. Don't sign before at least doing that.
You need to get an attorney immediately before you waive valuable rights and permanently cause harm to yourself that will not be able to be later rectified. Many attorneys offer free consultations. You need to find one and speak with one immediately.
If you can't afford an attorney, look around for legal clinics in your area. Bring the paperwork to one of the clinics and discuss it with the volunteer lawyers, they can point you in the correct direction.
Consumers can use this platform to pose legal questions to real lawyers and receive free insights.
Participating legal professionals get the opportunity to speak directly with people who may need their services, as well as enhance their standing in the Lawyers.com community.