The no contact order you mentioned probably has language saying that your son can't have contact with your grandson's mom directly or indirectly (through a 3rd party or online, phone, mail, etc.) So, if you contacted her on your son's behalf, then that's not so good. If you contacted her on your own, and your son did not ask you to do so, and you contacted her merely for the address and to set up communication between you and your grandson, that's okay. The key is that you cannot contact her for your son especially if he asks you to, or even if he knows you're going to make contact for him and he knowingly allows it. His lawyer can only do the contacting. So long as your son didn't have anything to do with it, and didn't put you up to it, it should be okay.
Answered on Jan 08th, 2014 at 11:08 AM