how do i know what to ask for in a medical malpractice lawsuit

You should consult a lawyer, who will advise you what an appropriate range of damages is. Assuming you have a viable case, the scope of damages depends on the nature of the injury, whether it is permanent, and whether it impacts your ability to earn a living, among many other factors.  If the hospital is negotiating with you directly, get a lawyer because you are not in a position to address these kinds of issues on your own.  You should contact a local personal injury attorney (one in your state).  Personal injury attorneys take  cases on a contingency basis which means you only have to pay if you succeed.  Additionally, initial consultations are free. You can use the "Find a Lawyer" service through this website to research personal injury attorneys. Then, visit each attorney's website and select a firm that has a record of successful verdicts. Click here for more information about me. Click here for more information about my firm. Please note that by attempting to answer your question, I am not acting as your attorney. I will do nothing further to protect or preserve your interests in the absence of any additional discussion with you about this matter. John Ratkowitz, Esq. Starr, Gern, Davison & Rubin, P.C. 105 Eisenhower Parkway Roseland, NJ 07068 Office: (973) 830-8441 Cell: (732) 616-6278 Fax: (973) 226-0031 Email: jratkowitz@starrgern.com  Skype: john_ratkowitz Web: www.starrgern.com.