The question for slander is whether she is saying false things about you or not. If she is expressing her opinion about you or your morality, that's not actionable for slander. It has to be factually based. For example, if she claims you broke up the marriage, but you were not even involved with her ex at that point, that would be a false statement and might be actionable. But if she says you are a scoundrel for dating her ex, she has the right to express her opinion, First Amendment freedom of speech. On the other hand, if she engages in a pattern of harassment, then you might be able to get a restraining order, but it sounds like you already tried that.
Answered on Aug 23rd, 2012 at 3:38 PM