Even though you might consider naming the teacher and the principal, individually, as co-defendants in a law suit (along with the parents of the bullies), naming the school district as the first defendant will be, most likely, advisable. I suggest that you should a) file a written complaint with the school's principal (get the secretary to write an acknowledgment of receipt on your copy); b) after the next incident, however minor, file a written complaint with the police citing not just the latest incident but the entire history of bullying; c) send certified letters to the parents of each boy who bullies your daughter (don't threaten them with anything, just describe the problem fully and ask for the parents' help); d) if none of this helps, retain an attorney, ask him/her to apply for a restraining order against the bullies, and to file a lawsuit against the school district and the individuals involved. Meanwhile, to prevent deeper damage to your daughter's health and well-being, please, consider getting her professional help. There are psychologists and various community-based organizations that specialize in helping bullied kids. It is important to give your daughter the help she needs as soon as possible.
Answered on Sep 07th, 2012 at 11:17 AM