Can I sue my father for emotional distress?

My father was from the ages 1-14 verbally abusive and (for some time) physically to my mother. I can still remember walking in on him holding my mom by the throat and hitting her when I was 6. After I turned for 15 he tried to become 'better', even going as far as claiming to be a Christian. He didn't change much, but the verbal abuse lessened. My father fits all the criteria of being a narcissist. He controls us. He hates if we're independent. He had my laptop (internet searches and actions) under surveillance, as well as my cell phone - he can see EVERYTHING I do, no matter what. He also once deleted all my music from my phone (music keeps me sane as I am bipolar and have depression), held my phone away from me - at that given time my cell phone was the only thing that was precious to me because it had everything I owned in it. He also once ripped off pictures/posters from my wall, claiming they're evil, using the same excuse for taking away my music, movies, pictures, etc. When he gets mad to this day, he throws and breaks anything he gets his hands on. He once broke my laptop when I was sick because he said the table it sat atop was dirty (there was tissues on it because I had a runny nose). Anyway, that's a tenth of what he did. I'm not that good at explaining as I've tried for most part to suppress most of what he did. Also, he has controlled me so much that I turned to a eating disorders, which turned to full anorexia. I had once read from a psychology book that control is what an anorexic seeks and that is exactly what I needed since I had nothing of my own, my father controlled everything. I don 't know if it's important, but I also have OCD. So, he has caused me an eating disorder, depression, anxiety, once even self mutilation (cutting myself) and even the need to see a therapist to keep myself sane enough to function every day. Also, he used all the money that my mother had set aside.