As far as parents go, you got screwed. I feel sorry for you. However, NOW you are a grown up. Get help and fix yourself. Your parents are a lost cause. Prove to yourself that you are a better person than either of them, and go on and make a happy and fulfilling life for yourself. Children do NOT come with an instruction manual. Most parents do the best that they can. Some parents are so badly damaged by their own parents that they have no clue what they are causing their own children to suffer. Many parents should NOT have become parents, but sex is a natural drive, while child rearing is not. If you were smart enough to contact this website to seek answers, then you are smart enough to do what needs to be done. Good luck, and as they used to tell sailors going to sea in wooden ships "God Speed."
Answered on Apr 15th, 2014 at 11:57 AM