Can I sue the owner of the vehicle of a hit and run and win?

My mom got into a hit and run with my car (I am the registered owner). There were 2 males and a female that fled the scene and left their vehicle on site. Called the Police and filed a report. My mom only has liability under her insurance. Police contacted the other vehicle's owner but he was not cooperating. Finally he claims that he lent his daughter the car. Now the daughter is saying she had lost the key and a friend might have it. Either way they do not want to tell us who was driving. My car is now in the tow truck co. and I can't take it out until all the fees are paid for which is over 1000$. They sent me a notice of vehicle abandonment if I don't pay they're going to sell my car and fine me 250$ and ticket me for it. What do I do? Do I have a case? Can I win?