1. The prosecutor can go forward with the criminal case against your boyfriend if he or she believes crimes were committed and a conviction can be obtained, regardless whether you press charges. The evidence of the crimes will be evaluated by the judge and jury; some may be admissible, some may not. 2. Sitting on the witness stand and pretending not to recall the horrible things this man did to you is lying under oath, also known as perjury. That's a felony in California and not something anyone should advise you to do, or anything you should do. Answer the questions with the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. 3. Pleading the Fifth Amendment is proper only if your testimony could actually incriminate you. It's not a magical way to avoid testifying and telling the truth. Ask your lawyer about this before you testify. 4. You ought to dump this incredibly abusive bully at once and refuse ever to see or speak with him again. You do not deserve to be abused, and he has no right to break your bonesor touch you offensively in any way. What are you waiting for? This fellow might kill you one day, and even if he does not, he is never going to quit beating you up, but will only increase the violence and harm. Dump this jerk immediately, and forever. 5. You ought to testify against this criminal so that he receives punishment for his crimes. You could sue him, too, and you ought to consult with attorneys about this possibility. But at the least, quit thinking about how to help this jerk by not testifying and start thinking about protecting yourself and the public against him. Be brave. Be strong. Good luck.
Answered on Feb 13th, 2013 at 6:42 PM