Neither of you, yet. As you mentioned, once she died, the power of attorney was no longer valid. Your brother has a lawyer and you don't so he is one step ahead. If your mother had a will, then there was an executor named. But it is not automatic, the named person has to be appointed as executor by the court (in New York this is called Surrogate's Court, other states have different names). If she did not have a will, then someone has to be appointed as administrator of her estate, again this is done by filing a petition with the court. If your brother has already filed his petition, you can contest it. If not, you can file, maybe you will get there first.
Answered on Apr 19th, 2013 at 1:26 PM