Sarah,
First, you should be aware of the fact that you are not necessarily at fault bcs you had no insurance. Having no insurance is a traffic offense but does mean you are responsible for an accident. It the woman slammed on her brakes at a green light, she may be at fault for the accident.
Second, your mother's license should not be suspended bcs her name was on the title. She should contact the DOL and clear that up.
I would need more information to adequately address your other questions. For example, you say you are being sued. Have you responded to the lawsuit or was a default judgment entered against you? If a default judgment hasn't been entered you need to answer the complaint as soon as possible. I'm afraid you will need an attorney to properly answer the complaint.
If the amount they are asking seems wrong you should contest it. The attorney will have to prove the amount they are asking for is reasonable with documentation. You should request that documentation.
If the lady had insurance, it is probably an attorney from her insurance company that is pursuing this claim for the insurance company.
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Answered on Oct 22nd, 2014 at 12:59 PM